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1) Your Gut Sends You SignalsDoes your gut tell you something's wrong?The very first indicator is your intuition or your instinct. You know when you get that gut feeling that something just isn't right?Trust it!Even though you may not have any other signs of a cheating partner, your gut is generally incredibly accurate -- unless, of course, you have trust issues to begin with.I think we're raised to believe in logic. But our intuitions overrule logic, so if you getting signals from your intuition, DON'T try to shut them out, thinking it's 'only in your head'. It's probably not. 2) She Changes her AppearanceDid she change something major about the way she looks?If you notice a sudden change in your girlfriend's appearance, like new or sexier clothes, a drastically different hair style, or a sudden preoccupation with her weight...... this is one of the huge signs your girlfriend is cheating.Women know that the best way to get a man's attention is by LOOKING attractive. Obvious, right.So why would she suddenly change her appearance?You got it! There may be another guy in the picture. 3) She Talks About Another GuyDoes she talk endlessly about another guy with admiration?If you have a sister, you may have noticed when and how she talks about a certain guy, who she obviously has a crush on.She tells you little stories about things he does or gives you small details about his life.Well, if your girlfriend is suddenly discussing some guy she works with or met in this same way, this could be an indicator your girlfriends cheating -- or more accurately, it probably hasn't gotten that far.She's just infatuated.But if she suddenly STOPS talking about him or bringing him into conversations, this is one of the signs your girlfriend is cheating. 4) Physical Contact or Sex DecreasesDoes she seem uninterested in sex with you?This one should be obvious. Remember, if a woman isn't sleeping with you, in all likelihood, she's sleeping with someone else.So if a woman rejects your advances or moves away from you when you initiate physical contact, this is one of the major signs of a cheating girlfriend.Especially if this begins happening regularily without an obvious reason and it is also very different than how things were eariler in the relationship.So if she's distant and you're getting that gut feeling that something isn't right, there's a good chance your girlfriends cheating. 5) She Gives You Too Many DetailsDoes she give you detailed explanations of her affairs?If your girlfriend suddenly starts giving you detailed explanations of what she did last night or where she was, this is another of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.Sure, women can talk a lot. But doesn't a complete narrative of what she did seem a little strange? Especially if it's out of her character. Perhps this will sound odd, but... It may be that she's feeling guilty and trying to prove she WASN'T cheating --even though you haven't and didn't even expect it.But if your girlfriend is trying to cover for herself without you even giving her a reason, she probably has one. 6) Unexpected Gifts or FavorsIs she suddenly being extra nice when she wasn't before?Most women who cheat do feel guilty about it.So another of these signs your girlfriend is cheating on you is if she starts doing extra special things for you.Things she didn't do before. If your girlfriend surprises you unexpectedly by buying you things or doing little favors for you, she may be feeling guilty about what she's done or is doing.And she's being extra nice to make herself feel better about it. 7) Mutual Friends Act StrangeDo your mutual friends seem to behave oddly around you?Most friends don't want to get caught in the crossfire, so even if they know your girlfriends cheating, they won't say anything. Good friends will, even though they know it may make the situation uncomfortable for them. But most will act weird around you. You'll pick up an uneasiness when they're around you and you may catch a few 'knowing' eye contact exchanges between them. So if you're getting a weird vibe from friends, this may be another of the signs of a cheater partner. 8) Things Just Don’t Add UpDid you find out later she lied about something?Finally, things just don't make sense or add up when thinking back.Perhaps your girlfriend said she was going somewhere, but later you find out she wasn't even there. Or much later, she mentions she was somewhere she 'shouldn't' have been without her thinking about what she's saying.And it just doesn't click probably.This is another of the signs of a cheating girlfriend.Again, trust your gut. And though we're taught not trust these unseen 'powers', your intuition is probably the most reliable thing you can use.Trust it! |
WHY PEOPLE CHEAT- WHAT ARE THE COUSES OF CHEATING?Both Men and Women Both men and women have needs. If needs aren't being met in all areas of a relationship both men and women will have an eye out for the person who meets them. The heart wants what it wants and constantly seeks it out. THE Number One Reason this Happens is due to a lack of communication. In the beginning, when everything is so wonderful, we tend to keep our mouth shut about things we don't like. It is never a good idea to do this. By doing this you get stuck with behavior and acts that drive you crazy later and create negative feelings. Let your partner know what you don't like. Be polite and matter of fact. It is easiest to do this in the beginning of a relationship. If you wait the other person may be offended that you didn't say something before and embarrassed that they continued not knowing how you felt. Things you don't like are just as important as the things you do. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy in matters of love, sex and relationships.
LETTING GO OF A CHEATING PATNERI understand that you may be going through a lot, especially if you’ve invested lots of time in the relationship. Cheating devastates any relationship, so correct me if I’m wrong to say that when a married man or woman finds out that their husband or wife cheated, it’s a little more heart breaking than a boyfriend or girlfriend who cheats, because of the level of commitment expected. Better yet, a person who has spent years with another, and those that have children together suffer more. But the first thing you should do is stop and think about whether or not this is something you are willing to try and work out. For some it’s possible to get pass the devastation and heartbreak, for other’s it’s not that simple. Whatever your course of action is, you will eventually have to learn to let it go. If you decide to work it out with your spouse, you have to get pass it and let it go. If you break up, but have children, you have to let it go for the sake of the kids. Even if you don’t have children, and decide not to stay together, you still need to let it go. The last thing you want to do is bring old baggage into a new relationship. LET IT GO!  HOW TO BREAK UP WITH YOUR CHEATING PATNER Pick an appropriate place. The less public, the better. Don't do it in a place where the person on the receiving end is going to feel more vulnerable than necessary; however, beware of an overly remote situation in case your ex loses control and resorts to violence. Choose the right time. Avoid holidays and special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries at all costs. Do you really want your ex remembering your insensitivity every time that day rolls around? Do it in person. If the relationship is relatively new, maybe you can get away breaking up over the phone. But come on, if you've been out on more than a handful of dates, isn't that kind of harsh? Be honest but sensitive. No one likes to get dumped. But we at least appreciate the truth when it's over. Unless, of course, the truth is you've stopped finding him/her attractive, you've met someone better, or that you're just plain bored with the relationship. Don't react. Some people don't handle rejection well. Some people yell, scream, or cry. But it doesn't mean you should react to their meltdown. Remember, rejection is tough. You've already got the upper hand by being the dumper. Let the dumpee behave ridiculously if they choose to. And if their tantrum escalates, get the heck out of there! Don't wait around for the aftermath! |
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